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Tuesday, March 3, 2026
Monday, March 2, 2026
In Loving Memory: Rev. James (Jim) R. Kok 1935-2026
Remembering Jim Kok (1935-2026)
for anybody unsure, this is about the James R. Kok who grew up in Hills (MN), Bellflower (CA) & Holland (MI) and became a Christian Reformed Church (CRC) pastor, working most of his career at Pine Rest Christian Hospital in west Michigan, & the rest of his career mostly at the Crystal Cathedral in Southern California. (this is noted because there are/were more than one Rev. James R. Kok affiliated with the CRC over the last several decades). (His wife's name is Linda).
(I am not in charge of posting the official obituary so I am posting a secondary obituary notice here on my own website blogs to provide further context & information). There has been some obituary information posted online already at the following links:
https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/grandrapids/name/james-kok-obituary?id=60896647
https://www.communityfuneralservice.com/obituaries/james-kok
https://obits.mlive.com/us/obituaries/grandrapids/name/james-kok-obituary?id=60896647
On March 21, 2026, all are welcome at the burial ceremony at Artesia Cemetery in Artesia (CA) ( 11142 Artesia Blvd, Cerritos, CA 90703 beginning around 9:00 am (pst). It is a small cemetery and we do not know how many people will attend. If more than expected do attend, we hope the cemetery staff will help direct you to "overflow parking" outside the cemetery (but apparently parking in the high school parking lot across the street is discouraged)
Later in the day, all are also welcome at a formal memorial service at the Shepherd's Grove church (4445 Alton Pkwy, Irvine, CA 92604) later in the day beginning at 1:30pm (pst), after which there will be gathering in the community hall at the same location for refreshments & an informal time for people to reflect, socialize, & remember Jim, possibly with an open mic to share stories, as well as a photo slideshow, & memorial table etc)
here's my version of Jim Kok's life & legacy:
Blessed are those who mourn,
for they shall be comforted."
— Matthew 5:4
Remembering James R. "Jim" Kok
(1935–2026)
James R. Kok, affectionately known as Jim, passed peacefully on February 17, 2026, leaving behind a legacy of faith, family, & a lifelong dedication to Christian kindness. In a striking alignment with his mission, his passing occurred on February 17, 2026, which is also known as Random Acts of Kindness Day, a fitting reflection of the life he spent serving others with compassion, care, love & kindness.
Born on March 29, 1935, in Hills, Minnesota, Jim was the second of five children: Sherwood, Jim, Faith, Kay, & Gary. As an infant, he moved with his parents,Gareth & Katherine, to Bellflower, California, where his father founded Valley Christian School & served as pastor of a Christian Reformed Church (1st Bellflower CRC aka "1st Bell "). The household was steeped in faith, learning, & service, shaping the values that would guide Jim's life.
The family later relocated to Holland, Michigan, where Jim attended Holland Christian Junior High & High School. Tragedy struck during Jim's teenage years when his mother, Katherine, passed away just as Jim was in his final years of high school, leaving a profound mark on him as he struggled with "grief" early in life, which influenced the depth of compassion & understanding he would later bring to his Christian ministry.
During this time, basketball became both a passion & a source of friendship & community, as he played alongside his lifelong friend Tony Diekema (future president of Calvin College) at Holland Christian High, & later Don Vroon as well (future Calvin professor & coach, RIP) (among others he remembered fondly), continuing together at Calvin College (original location) & winning multiple MIAA championships.
Growing up, Jim worked various jobs to make ends meet. In Bellflower, in the 1930's, he picked & sold avocados door-to-door; & also sold the Press-Telegram from street corners, & even drove a tractor for alfalfa harvesting time (Bellflower at that time still being mostly an agricultural & dairy farming area).
Later, still growing up, in Holland (MI) he also worked as a "paper boy" delivering the GR Press & Holland Sentinel. In addition he worked at various local grocery stores; & at the Holland ballpark selling popcorn & peanuts.
As a young adult he also worked at Chris Craft, as well as another factory, while going thru college; among other things. As a child he enjoyed boating on Lake Macatawa & also the "car life" with his brother Sherwood.
After college, Jim studied at Michigan State University (MSU) for a master's in counseling & worked in Kalamazoo in vocational rehab for one year while also still playing basketball for various leagues with friends etc. After one year in Kalamazoo, Jim answered God's call to ministry starting at Westminster Seminary in Philadelphia & then Calvin Seminary in Grand Rapids, eventually becoming an ordained pastor for the Christian Reformed Church.
His pastoral care experience included internships at the University of Michigan & a hospital in Gowanda, New York, & he went on to become a Clinical Pastoral Education (CPE) supervisor & Pine Rest Hospital & later the Crystal Cathedral, mentoring generations in spiritual care, grief support, & compassionate counseling.
He also started the annual International Care & Kindness Conference at the Crystal Cathedral.During seminary, Jim met his beloved wife, Linda Peters, daughter of Leo Peters of Butterball Farms. Together they raised four children—a daughter & three sons across New York, Michigan, Iowa, & California, & were blessed with many grandchildren who continue to carry forward his legacy of faith & kindness.
Jim's ministry spanned decades: serving as pastor in Iowa City starting in 1965, 14 years as CPE supervisor at Pine Rest Hospital in Grand Rapids, & many years as Director of Pastoral Care at the Crystal Cathedral in California. He authored several books, contributed a weekly column to The Banner, and for many years led the annual International Care & Kindness Conference at the Crystal Cathedral, inspiring countless attendees to embrace Christian compassion in both words and actions.
Even in retirement, Jim continued mentoring, counseling, & supporting family, friends, & his community. The timing of his passing on Random Acts of Kindness Day poignantly mirrors the heart of his lifelong mission: to model & promote Christ-centered kindness & care for all.
Jim Kok will be remembered as a devoted husband, loving father, cherished grandfather, uncle, loyal friend, mentor, & servant of Christ. His life stands as a testament to faith, resilience through grief, & a steadfast commitment to loving & serving others.
Jim would be "tickled pink" if you commit a "Simple Act of Care & Kindness" (SACK) in his memory, for the sake of our Savior Jesus.
Rest in peace, Jim. Your faith, care, & kindness, will continue to bless the lives of many.
Subject: Invitation to Contribute a Final Farewell
(must be received by Thursday, March 5, 2026 per funeral home deadline)
(or if they are received later, maybe we can try to make special arrangements to include them)
Dear Family & Friends
As we prepare to honor and celebrate the life of our beloved father James R. Kok, we would like to invite each of you to contribute a final farewell to be placed with his casket for the March 21 burial. This can be a letter, a card, a favorite photo, or any fond sentiment you wish to express.
If your contribution can be typed or is a digital photo: Please email it to jkokccc@gmail.com.
One of us will take care of printing it.
If it is a card or other physical item: Please mail it (or deliver to):
16828 Chicago Ave
Bellflower, CA 90706
Be sure to mark the envelope "For the Casket" so it is handled appropriately.
We hope this gives everyone an opportunity to share memories, love, & gratitude, creating a lasting tribute that will accompany our beloved father (& grandfather, uncle, friend etc) in their final rest.
Thank you for taking part in this meaningful gesture. Your words, pictures, and sentiments will provide comfort & a lasting memory for all of us.
With love & remembrance,
The Kok Family
******
note: The formal term for items like notes, letters, cards, or small keepsakes placed in a casket "in loving memory" is generally funeral or burial memorabilia, but more specifically in mortuary and archival contexts they are often called casket or burial offerings. Other accepted terms include:
Casket letters – usually personal letters placed inside the casket.
Funeral keepsakes – more general term for cards, notes, or small mementos.
Memorial tributes – can include any written or symbolic items left with the deceased.
Interment items – a formal term in funeral service documents for things placed in the casket before burial.
Friday, February 13, 2026
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Monday, February 9, 2026
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Friday, February 6, 2026
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Tuesday, January 27, 2026
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Monday, January 12, 2026
Fun to watch lefties protest against their own (can't blame Trump for this😃😄) Thousands Protest in Pacific Palisades a Year After Fires With No Rebuilding: 'They Let Us Burn'
Tuesday, January 6, 2026
There's a stark "Before & After" video in this article "1 Year Later: Slow Progress as Fire-Ravaged Palisades Rebuilds
Monday, January 5, 2026
Fire 🔥 Victims not happy " Protest to Demand Answers from Newsom & Karen Bass on Anniversary of Palisades Fire
Saturday, January 3, 2026
Watch Full Rose Parade 2026 in 8 minutes !
Wednesday, December 31, 2025
New Year's Eve 🎉"Evacuation warnings spread across Los Angeles Metro area |" Fox Weather
Monday, December 29, 2025
Visitors be warned ⚠️: It's a very REAL Bellflower CA PROBLEM👎😡 and you’re NOT imagining it.
Friday, December 26, 2025
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"Los Angeles Mayor Karen Bass Takes Victory Lap Over 'First Rebuilt House' in Pacific Palisades After Fires - There's Just One Little Problem "
Saturday, November 22, 2025
first time since 2011, neither St. John Bosco nor Mater Dei will play in the CIF Southern Div 1 Championship
The St. John Bosco (Bellflower) Braves football team recently experienced a significant upset loss in the CIF Southern Section (CIF-SS) Division 1 Playoffs.
Here is the latest update for the 2025 season:
🏈 St. John Bosco Football Update
💔 CIF-SS Playoff Upset
The Braves' season was dramatically impacted on Friday, November 14, 2025, when they were defeated in the CIF-SS Ford Division 1 Quarterfinal.
Result: Orange Lutheran defeated St. John Bosco, 20-19.
Significance: This was a major upset, as Bosco had previously defeated Orange Lutheran soundly with a score of 48-0 during their Trinity League matchup on October 10. The loss ended St. John Bosco's run in the CIF-SS playoffs.
⚔️ Key Regular Season Matchup
Prior to the playoffs, the Braves were involved in their usual national rivalry game:
Result: Mater Dei defeated St. John Bosco, 36-31, on October 31, 2025.
Details: Bosco held a large 24-3 lead in the second quarter before Mater Dei mounted a dramatic second-half comeback. This loss was Bosco's first of the season.
🌟 Final Season Record
The St. John Bosco Braves finished the 2025 season with an overall record of 9-2 and a Trinity League record of 4-1, sharing the League Championship with Mater Dei and Santa Margarita Catholic.
👑 Mater Dei Monarchs Football Update
1. The Regular Season: Dramatic Finish
Mater Dei finished the regular season strong with a phenomenal comeback win against previously undefeated St. John Bosco (Bosco).
Bosco Game (Oct 31): Mater Dei won, 36-31, erasing a 21-point deficit (Bosco led 24-3) in one of the rivalry's most dramatic games. This win gave Mater Dei a share of the Trinity League Championship.
Regular Season Record: Mater Dei finished the regular season with a 7-2 record, which included a surprising 7-6 loss to Santa Margarita Catholic earlier in the year.
2. The CIF-SS Playoffs: Sudden End
Despite the momentum from the Bosco win, Mater Dei's run in the CIF Southern Section (CIF-SS) Division 1 playoffs was cut short in the Semifinals.
| Round | Date | Opponent | Result |
| Quarterfinal | Nov 14, 2025 | Mission Viejo | W 20-0 |
| Semifinal | Nov 21, 2025 | Corona Centennial | L 28-27 |
Semifinal Loss: Mater Dei lost to Corona Centennial in a thrilling Semifinal game. Centennial scored a go-ahead touchdown late in the game, and the Monarchs' attempt at a game-winning field goal was blocked with just 6 seconds remaining, sealing the 28-27 victory for Centennial.
Significance: This Semifinal loss means that for the first time since 2011, neither St. John Bosco nor Mater Dei will play in the CIF Southern Section Division 1 Championship game.
🌟 Final Season Record
The Mater Dei Monarchs finished the 2025 season with an overall record of 8-3 and a shared Trinity League title.
Thursday, November 6, 2025
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Friday, October 31, 2025
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Tuesday, October 28, 2025
"Los Angeles sparks fury as it declares state of emergency to combat ICE crackdowns: 'A middle finger to the law' | Daily Mail Online
Saturday, October 25, 2025
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Wednesday, October 8, 2025
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Thursday, September 11, 2025
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Wednesday, July 23, 2025
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Sunday, July 20, 2025
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Saturday, July 19, 2025
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Thursday, July 17, 2025
Wednesday, July 16, 2025
but do you really know much about her? "Karen Bass: ruler of all she sees "
Sunday, July 13, 2025
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Tuesday, June 10, 2025
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"Pentagon deploys 700 US MARINES to Los Angeles amid immigration protests | US military "| The Guardian
"FBI hunts down masked LA brute wanted for hurling 'cinderblock' rocks at federal officers during riots -- AG Bondi warns: 'You can't hide
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Monday, June 9, 2025
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Wednesday, April 30, 2025
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Tuesday, April 29, 2025
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Sunday, March 9, 2025
"Los Angeles Lost Track Of Billions In Homelessness Funding, Audit Finds |" ZeroHedge
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
re Sunset Beach lifeguard who will NOT get out of his truck (LAZY) 😡👎 (north of Huntington Beach CA)
"Leaked Text Messages From Fox 11 Los Angeles Reveal Reporters Have Been Instructed to NOT Cover Secret Recording of Karen Bass Phone Call "
Monday, February 24, 2025
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"U.S. Army Corps of Engineers beginning residential debris removal in LA County > South Pacific Division > "
Wednesday, February 5, 2025
Mexico -Angeles
"Pacoima Mom’s Suspected Killer Had Been Deported 10 Times, ICE Says –" NBC Los Angeles
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"Trump Decimates California Democrats Over LA Wildfire Response With GOP 'Common Sense' "– RedState
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"On Monday, Palisades homeowners sued the city of Los Angeles' electric and water utility for not supplying enough water .."
Thursday, January 16, 2025
" LA Residents Affected by Wildfires Will Receive $770 from the Biden Admin"
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Wednesday, January 15, 2025
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"Jay Leno brought his own fire truck to serve food to first responders battling deadly LA fires: ‘It’s unbelievable’'
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